Survey #242—Full Response from Melissa
| Pronouns | She/her |
|---|---|
| Please read the two statements below, then answer the questions that follow. | None of the above- I believe I have some good skills for decluttering but I struggle in certain areas like photos due to past negative experiences and my perfectionism. I learn more toward B in that regard |
| Please read the two statements below, then answer the questions that follow. | Both of these are sometimes true. Currently, I am statement C: In the middle of my decluttering project, I start a craft project that has made a huge mess on my only table! Yikes! |
| Please read the two statements below, then answer the questions that follow. | Closer to A |
| Please read the two statements below, then answer the questions that follow. | A: I do keep potentially useful items for a time and only declutter them when I have too many or realize that I’ll never use them. I like to repurpose things and find uses for empty containers and stuff and I actually do find uses for some things sometimes. It’s not out of control but could become so if I left these things unchecked. I try to declutter regularly especially when a cupboard gets full. |
| Please read the two statements below, then answer the questions that follow. | Definitely A- I have a hard time letting go of expensive items that I don’t or can’t use- old ballet slippers, Spanx that are the wrong size, etc. Fortunately, I usually shop at the dollar store now or get used items from my neighbours so I don’t have to worry about the cost. Statement B is a good attitude I need to adopt when donating. |
| Write a statement that summarizes your current mindset with respect to the decluttering and organizing journey. | Decluttering and organizing is a lifetime ongoing process. I used to really enjoy it when I was younger as I found it to be both cathartic and freeing as it gave me a chance to reflect as well as a sense of control. Then there was my divorce and two minor but emotionally horrible bed bug episodes which freaked me out and froze me in my tracks. I’ve gotten back on track recently as I’ve come to terms with not being in control of certain things. Letting go of stuff sometimes helps but it’s really the emotions of fear, resentment, disappointment, anger, regret, trauma that were and still are harder for me to let go of. I feel I’ve turned a corner though and I have to thank you for your podcast- it’s so positive, realistic, and helpful. Sometimes I just listen while I declutter. |
| Future topics | How to stay focused |
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