Survey #186 Response from Theresa

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Statement #1: When I give valuable things to friends or family, I worry that they will turn around and give them away.
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Statement #2: When I give something away, I accept that I have no further claim to it, which gives me peace of mind.
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Statement #3: I only give things on the condition that the recipients will involve me in any decisions about the future disposition of things I’ve given them.
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Statement #4: I find it discouraging when I give useful and valuable things to friends and family who don't appreciate it.
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Statement #5: Worrying about what happens to things after you give them away is letting stuff hold too much power over you.
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Statement #6: It means a lot to me that my children recognize and understand the importance and value of items from our family’s history.
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Statement #7: Even though my stuff has become a burden in my life, it’s hard to let go of good things to people who don’t appreciate them.
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Statement #8: Remaining attached to our stuff and feeling like we need to find a good home for each item arises out of a need to remain in control.
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Statement #9: When people don’t want the thing you give to them, it isn’t a judgment on you or the value of your gift.
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What factors do you consider when you’re thinking about giving things away to family members, friends, neighbors, or other people you know?Can family use it? Otherwise there is no consideration. It needs to go.
What factors do you consider when you’re thinking about donating items to a charity, shelter, or unknown recipient?Is it in good condition?
What is your all-time favorite hand-me-down, cast-off, or regifted item?Can’t recall.
Name one or more of your favorite Clutter Fairy-isms (e.g., “thin the herd”) or decluttering and organizing mnemonic devices (e.g., OHIO—Only Handle It Once).Any progress is progress AND one bite at time.
Here’s your chance to ask Gayle and Ed any question you’re curious about. It need not be related to this survey’s topic(s).Mine is more mental health. I try to unpack after moving. Opened several boxes not finding what I was looking for. I’ve been here 2+ months, could have been thru all boxes 15 times by now, but just don’t care.
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I think you cover everything. How to just keep going, the alternative is not an option.
Thank you for all you do. I admire your dedication and conviction to helping us.

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