Survey #166 Response from Dorothy

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Briefly describe who will benefit from your efforts to declutter and get organized, and how they’ll benefit. Think about members of your household, but also about the larger world—e.g., the people who’ll buy your stuff at a garage sale, the shelter residents who’ll get your donations, the next generation of family who’ll carry a lighter load, and so on.Myself, son and daughter, son in law. Infinity because I can’t pursue my hobbies when my craft room is a cluttered mess. It’s the room, next to the family room and kitchen that gets all the extra junk thrown in it when family and friends come over weekly. I had COVID then shingles and pretty much bed ridden for 3 months. With your help, I have been able to clean off most surfaces and actually started to finish my son in laws portrait, yesterday.
I have been decluttering for years but never seem to get ahead. I am hoping what I have contributed to charities have made many people a little happier. My blessings to you and all the people working with you because you have made my life so much better.
Tell us about a memory of a person or incident from the formative years of your life that influenced your attitudes and emotions about belongings, clutter, organizing, or any related subject. (For example: “Grandma’s house was packed to the rafters with stuff.”)My family was not the problem. When I would visit friends I noticed everyone had collections and wondered why I wasn’t interested in such things. I do have somewhat of a problem with clothing. Never came to my mind that when I stopped growing I would need to get rid of clothes that were perfectly fine if I kept buying new things. Thank you for enlightening me. My late husband, collected records. My daughter inherited them, so I have filled my home with things to fill up space. My family now knows not to give presents but love, time and experiences. My life is much fuller now.
What is the strongest memory to which you feel connected by way of an object, such as a souvenir, photo, or keepsake?I found a pirates pistol on the beach in Florida after a hurricane. I have never forgotten the experience and would love to return one day.
Here’s your chance to ask Gayle and Ed any question you’re curious about. It need not be related to this survey’s topic(s). If we think that your question—and our answer—might be useful or instructive to The Clutter Fairy Weekly audience, we’ll share them in an upcoming episode.After a great loss, fill your time with people and things you love, not shopping and stuff. Stuff can’t fill the emptiness. Give to others, volunteer. I adopted my son, or should I say, we adopted each other. My daughter and son have given me new life and love. Can’t wait for my new adventure now. I have no idea what’s next, but I know it will be glorious.
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