Survey #157 Response from Joyce

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Which of the following growing things or green spaces are under your care?
  • Indoor plant (decorative)
What lawn or garden chore do you find the most difficult, challenging, tedious, unpleasant, etc., and why?I live in a condo, so the main lawn care issues I have are knowing when to be out of the house when the landscaping company does their thorough, but very noisy job. Re houseplants, it's having a consistent watering routine.
What’s your favorite thing to grow, and why?My mom's Christmas cactus that a dear friend resurrected from near death, & trying to grow basil as a houseplant for longer than a week.
What emotions do you experience when you think about downsizing?The anticipation of the energy needed; getting back into a "chuck-it" mindset; letting go of family items, even once I've scanned them - which I think is why I'm currently stuck: the amount of time to scan family documents I've sorted, combined with actually letting the physical version go. Anticipation of decision-making fatigue in addition to the actual decision-making fatigue I always get. I WANT to re-purpose my 2nd bedroom so it's functional (guest-room/sewing room), not just storage. I know the strategies I need to take, including Just. Getting. Started. When I HAD to declutter while we were cleaning out my parents' townhouse, I was able to let go of an amazing amount of stuff; however, it was replaced with family stuff, i.e., family memories, so emotional clutter. I also work better with some kind of deadline, and having adjusted to retirement has led to decluttering inertia, because there's no longer a deadline.
When do you expect to downsize your living arrangements?I don't know when I can finally move to a smaller place; I'd like to say 5 years, so I want to do the downsizing NOW, so I can enjoy & improve where I live NOW.
How would you feel about having to give up 50% or more of your current possessions in a downsizing move?
Piece of cakeNeutralCompletely overwhelmed
Complete this phrase: “Spring is _.”a time I have more energy, and if the weather's cooperative - sunny & warm-ish, I'm more likely to declutter, because I can move the stuff OUT the same day I'm working on it.
Here’s your chance to ask Gayle and Ed any question you’re curious about. It need not be related to this survey’s topic(s).What were your biggest hurdles downsizing, whether it was before moving yourself, or a family member. I know Ed has moved, and I recall Gayle speaking of downsizing her mother, so I know we've discussed this topic before; I guess I just would appreciate any new insight either of you may have. Thanks again for these surveys, as writing, though I hate it, helps me think through my problems with clutter.

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